Dating Violence

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    Definitions

    Dating Violence: Intimate partner violence that can include physical violence, sexual violence, psychological aggression and/or stalking.

    Physical Violence:  One partner hurts or tries to hurt the other partner through physical force (hitting, kicking, etc.)

    Sexual Violence: One partner forces or tries to force a partner to take part in a sex act and or sexual touching when the partner does not consent or is unable to consent or refuse. It also includes non-physical sexual behaviors like posting or sharing sexual pictures of a partner without their consent or sexting someone without their consent.

    Psychological Aggression: The use of verbal and non-verbal communication with the intent to harm a partner mentally or emotionally and exert control over a partner.

    Stalking: A pattern of repeated, unwanted attention and contact by a current or former partner that causes fear or safety concern for an individual victim or someone close to the victim.

    Control:  One dating partner makes all the decisions and tells the other what to do, what to wear, or who to spend time with. He or she is unreasonably jealous, and/or tries to isolate the other partner from his or her friends and family. 

    Mutual Respect:  Respect means that each person values who the other is and understands the other person’s boundaries. 

    Self-Confidence:  When dating partners have confidence in themselves, it can help their relationships with each other.  

    • Teen & Young Adult Dating Quiz (Ages 13-21)

      Ask your teen or young adult to take the readiness quiz and discuss your expectations regarding appropriate dating behavior.

    • Healthy Relationship Quiz

      Everyone deserves to be in a safe and healthy relationship. The questions in this quiz from Love is Respect.org are a great way to discuss healthy dating with your kids

    Family Activities Media
    https://youtu.be/h6OlYc_2-fs
    https://youtu.be/OFYkslIiHmI
    https://youtu.be/MPROrgYuxVw
    https://youtu.be/laMtr-rUEmY

    ACTIVITIES

    • Teach The Wheels

      Use the Power & Control Wheel and contrasting Equality Wheel to teach youth about relationship dynamics.

    • Watch One Love Videos

      Watch One Love videos with youth to teach the 10 signs of an unhealthy relationship.

    • Host a Workshop

      Host a workshop at your school or community center to teach youth about healthy relationships and spotting the warning signs of dating abuse.

    LINKS

    • Love is Learned

      Take an education series from One Love to teach youth how love is learned.

    • Teach Consent

      Teach Consent website includes videos and parent guide teens how to ask, listen and respect.

    • Power & Control Wheel

      Teen Power & Control Wheel adopted from the Domestic Abuse Intervention in Duluth, Minnesota

    Family Resources Media
    https://youtu.be/42FZPLkyz-w
    https://youtu.be/EFSErIBQGPc

    ORGANIZATIONS

    • National Coalition Against Domestic Violence

      The National Coalition Against Domestic Violence (NCADV)'s mission is to lead, mobilize and raise our voices to support efforts that demand a change of conditions that lead to domestic violence such as patriarchy, privilege, racism, sexism, and classism.

    READING & RESEARCH

    Student Engagement
      Defintions

      Dating Violence: Intimate partner violence that can include physical violence, sexual violence, psychological aggression and/or stalking.

      Physical Violence:  One partner hurts or tries to hurt the other partner through physical force (hitting, kicking, etc.)

      Sexual Violence: One partner forces or tries to force a partner to take part in a sex act and or sexual touching when the partner does not consent or is unable to consent or refuse. It also includes non-physical sexual behaviors like posting or sharing sexual pictures of a partner without their consent or sexting someone without their consent.

      Psychological Aggression: The use of verbal and non-verbal communication with the intent to harm a partner mentally or emotionally and exert control over a partner.

      Stalking: A pattern of repeated, unwanted attention and contact by a current or former partner that causes fear or safety concern for an individual victim or someone close to the victim.

      Control:  One dating partner makes all the decisions and tells the other what to do, what to wear, or who to spend time with. He or she is unreasonably jealous, and/or tries to isolate the other partner from his or her friends and family. 

      Mutual Respect:  Respect means that each person values who the other is and understands the other person’s boundaries. 

      Self-Confidence:  When dating partners have confidence in themselves, it can help their relationships with each other.  

      • Teen & Young Adult Dating Quiz (Ages 13-21)

        Ask your teen or young adult to take the readiness quiz and discuss your expectations regarding appropriate dating behavior.

      • Healthy Relationship Quiz

        Everyone deserves to be in a safe and healthy relationship. The questions in this quiz from Love is Respect.org are a great way to discuss healthy dating with your kids.

      Student Activities Media
      https://youtu.be/qYrwTn3dEek
      https://youtu.be/6QhLovf_xRU
      https://youtu.be/TQaY_hauBKo
      https://youtu.be/ATIkW08V928

      ACTIVITIES

      Learn how to support a friend or roommate dealing with dating abuse.

      • One Love

        Educating young people about healthy and unhealthy relationships, empowering them to identify and avoid abuse and learn how to love better.

      LINKS

      • How to Support a Friend

        Learn how to support a friend or roommate dealing with dating abuse.

      • One Love

        Educating young people about healthy and unhealthy relationships, empowering them to identify and avoid abuse and learn how to love better.

      • Learn About Consent

        Learn the ask, listen and respect components of consent communication.

      • Power & Control Wheel

        Teen Power & Control Wheel adopted from the Domestic Abuse Intervention in Duluth, Minnesota

      • Equality Wheel

        Teen Equality Wheel adopted from the Domestic Abuse Intervention in Duluth, Minnesota

      Student Resource Media
      https://youtu.be/_i8CE029Hh8
      https://youtu.be/3qVc339st34
      https://youtu.be/laMtr-rUEmY

      ORGANIZATIONS

      • National Coalition Against Domestic Violence

        The National Coalition Against Domestic Violence (NCADV)'s mission is to lead, mobilize and raise our voices to support efforts that demand a change of conditions that lead to domestic violence such as patriarchy, privilege, racism, sexism, and classism.

      READING & RESEARCH

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      Staff Topic Material Definition

      Dating Violence: Intimate partner violence that can include physical violence, sexual violence, psychological aggression and/or stalking.

      Physical Violence:  One partner hurts or tries to hurt the other partner through physical force (hitting, kicking, etc.)

      Sexual Violence: One partner forces or tries to force a partner to take part in a sex act and or sexual touching when the partner does not consent or is unable to consent or refuse. It also includes non-physical sexual behaviors like posting or sharing sexual pictures of a partner without their consent or sexting someone without their consent.

      Psychological Aggression: The use of verbal and non-verbal communication with the intent to harm a partner mentally or emotionally and exert control over a partner.

      Stalking: A pattern of repeated, unwanted attention and contact by a current or former partner that causes fear or safety concern for an individual victim or someone close to the victim.

      Control:  One dating partner makes all the decisions and tells the other what to do, what to wear, or who to spend time with. He or she is unreasonably jealous, and/or tries to isolate the other partner from his or her friends and family. 

      Mutual Respect:  Respect means that each person values who the other is and understands the other person’s boundaries. 

      Self-Confidence:  When dating partners have confidence in themselves, it can help their relationships with each other.  

      Staff Activities Attachment

      LINKS

      • Love is Learned

        Take an education series from One Love to teach youth how love is learned.

      • Teach Consent

        Teach Consent website includes videos and parent guide teens how to ask, listen and respect.

      • Power & Control Wheel

        Teen Power & Control Wheel adopted from the Domestic Abuse Intervention in Duluth, Minnesota

      Staff Activities Links

      ACTIVITIES

      • Teach The Wheels

        Use the Power & Control Wheel and contrasting Equality Wheel to teach youth about relationship dynamics.

      • Watch One Love Videos

        Watch One Love videos with youth to teach the 10 signs of an unhealthy relationship.

      • Host a Workshop

        Host a workshop at your school or community center to teach youth about healthy relationships and spotting the warning signs of dating abuse.

      Staff Activities Media
      https://youtu.be/42FZPLkyz-w
      Staff Resource Attachment

      READING & RESEARCH

      Staff Resource Links

      ORGANIZATIONS

      • National Coalition Against Domestic Violence

        The National Coalition Against Domestic Violence (NCADV)'s mission is to lead, mobilize and raise our voices to support efforts that demand a change of conditions that lead to domestic violence such as patriarchy, privilege, racism, sexism, and classism.

      Staff Resource Media
      https://youtu.be/EFSErIBQGPc
      Staff Handouts